My sister is pregnant with my HUSBAND’S baby – now she’s homeless while I have a spare room, my parents are raging at me
AFTER learning about her husband and sister’s love child, one woman didn’t think things could get any worse.
However, the betrayal was made even worse by her own parents’ reactions.
In her Reddit post, the unnamed user detailed the situation she found herself in.
The 26-year-old explained that her 24-year-old sister had been “really close” over the years.
She revealed that she moved out of home with her sister when she was 20 and met her husband soon after.
After the pair tied the knot, her sister “stayed close” and the three of them “spent a lot of time together.”
However, the Reddit user explained that both her sister and husband made a shocking revelation years into her marriage.
“A few months ago, I learned my sister was pregnant and my husband was the father,” she said.
“I ended my marriage to him immediately and I told my sister I wanted nothing more to do with her and she was on her own.”
She even moved her sister’s stuff to her now ex-husband’s place, explaining that the two of them lived together throughout the pregnancy.
However, once the baby was born, the poster said her ex wouldn’t let her sister back into his house.
“She called our parents from the hospital and told them she had nowhere to go,” the Reddit user said.
The poster explained that her ex was looking for custody and was avoiding her sister’s calls.
When her parents called her to explain the situation, she told them it wasn’t her problem.
“They tried to argue but I wasn’t having any of it,” she recalled.
“She got a place at a shelter for single parents and she’s still there, several weeks on.”
The poster explained that the custody dispute meant her sister couldn’t move back in with her parents
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
“I am still refusing to help her out, my parents are angry because I won’t even take her calls or reply to any messages she’s sent,” she said.
“I actually blocked her because I knew she wouldn’t stop.”
She explained that her parents are telling her she “should be ashamed” for turning her back on her sister and the baby.
“I told my parents I owe her and the baby nothing,” she explained.
However, her family did not share the same views, calling her “disgusting” for leaving her sister homeless since she has a spare room and “could help.”
Reddit users shared their thoughts on the situation in the comments section.
“So your parents were OK with her screwing around with your husband and getting pregnant?” asked one reader.
“Nah, keep them all blocked. Not your circus!”
“Blood doesn’t equal responsibility,” pointed another commenter.
“The responsibility lies on the PARENTS not the aunt, uncle, grandparents, or strangers.”