My penis is so small that my wife paid an escort to have sex with me because she didn’t want to
WHEN Antonio and Ejiro’s sex life began to struggle four years into their marriage, Ejiro took an unconventional step – she booked an escort for Antonio.
While some may believe that bringing another person into the bedroom could tear a relationship apart, they say it has only brought them closer.
Now, Ejiro wants to watch.
Here, the pair from Southend, Essex, share their extraordinary story with The Sun…
‘My tiny penis was the problem’
Before we met, we both came from relatively vanilla backgrounds, neither of us had much sexual experience, but we were both eager to explore and try new things.
Our chemistry was undeniable, and our relationship flourished in that excitement. Everything was fresh, fun, and adventurous.
Fast-forward four years, and life took a massive turn when we decided to open our own pizzeria, Fermento.
I thought it would be the perfect way to improve our lives, be our own bosses, and start a new chapter.
But the reality of running a small business was not as glamorous as we imagined. The stress was overwhelming.
My wife took on most of the workload – managing the logistics, the accounts, and everything in between.
As the opening day drew closer, the stress started to take a toll on our marriage.
Unfortunately, that toll also included our intimacy. Sex became a distant memory.
The passionate nights we used to have faded into nothing, and we had barely kissed in six months.
The spark that used to be there was completely gone, replaced by arguments and tension.
I began to feel like she didn’t want me anymore, which made my insecurities flare up.
I have a micropenis – just 3.5 inches when erect – which, while never an issue before, suddenly felt like the elephant in the room.
I started questioning whether my size was the reason she wasn’t interested anymore.
It was a horrible cycle. Every time I tried to talk to her about how I was feeling, she would shut down.
I felt like I was talking to a wall, and this only made things worse. The more I withdrew emotionally, the more she did the same.
Our communication was becoming non-existent.
I have a micropenis – just 3.5 inches when erect – which, while never an issue before, suddenly felt like the elephant in the room
Antonio Murolo
All we discussed anymore was business – work, the restaurant, and logistics – but never anything about us.
As time went on, I could feel our relationship slipping away.
Our marriage was becoming a business partnership rather than a loving, passionate connection.
I felt utterly alone in my frustrations, and my sexual confidence dwindled more with each passing day. I didn’t know how to reignite that fire we once had.
And if I’m honest, I was starting to worry that maybe it was just too late.
Then one night in August 2024, out of nowhere, my wife asked me to sit down for a serious conversation.
I’ve thought long and hard about this… and I’ve booked you an escort.
Ejiro Onoshevwe
My heart skipped a beat – was she going to tell me she wanted a divorce? Was I about to lose everything?
With a heavy sigh, she took my hand and said: “Antonio, I feel guilty. I know I’ve been rejecting you, and I can tell how frustrated you are. I know you have needs.
“I’ve thought long and hard about this… and I’ve booked you an escort.”
I nearly fell off my chair. I was stunned. My jaw dropped in disbelief.
“Is this a joke?” I stammered, trying to process what she had just said.
But she just calmly shook her head, her expression completely serious.
We had discussed the idea of a threesome before, but we had never talked about hiring an escort.
I kept asking if she was sure about this decision, and she reassured me, explaining that she had done some research and even found a couple of women she thought I would be interested in.
She told me that one of them had responded immediately, and she had booked her for that very night.
I was hesitant. It felt like the ultimate betrayal – yet, I had to admit, I was intrigued.
I was unsure how I felt about this situation, especially since it was her idea, but I eventually agreed.
Part of me still couldn’t believe what was happening, but I decided to trust her and go through with it.
When I arrived at the hotel room to meet the escort, I was a nervous wreck.
My mind raced with worries about my body and performance. Would she judge me for my penis size?
But when I walked in, she immediately put me at ease.
She was incredible – sexy, confident, and completely skilled. We had an amazing time, and it felt like I had finally experienced what I had been craving.
But even though it was everything I had wanted, I couldn’t shake the feeling that I was somehow cheating on my wife.
When I returned home, I was unsure how to tell my wife the truth.
How much should I reveal? Would she be upset? But she kept pressing me for details – and, to my surprise, the more I told her, the more turned on she seemed.
She wasn’t angry or disappointed at all. In fact, she seemed to find it exciting.
After that night, we decided to make it a regular thing, booking an escort once or twice a month.
Laws around selling sex in the UK
PROSTITUTION itself is legal in England and Wales.
However, soliciting in public, kerb crawling, pimping, and owning or managing a brothel are all crimes.
Some MPs want to see brothels decriminalised, because they think the current law could discourage hookers from working together in groups – which is generally safer for them.
In Sweden, for example, buying sex is a criminal act – but selling it is not.
It is not a crime to sell sex in a brothel, unless the worker is involved in the management of the business.
The term “escort” refers to a person hired for companionship, which may or may not involve other services.
The dynamic in our marriage began to shift.
We found the escorts on an adult website, for £150 an hour and booked different women so I wouldn’t become too attached or build an emotional connection.
For the first time in ages, my wife and I were laughing, talking, and connecting again in ways we hadn’t in a long time. It felt like we were rediscovering each other in a whole new way.
Then, last week, my wife surprised me once again. She told me: “Next time, I want to watch.”
I was shocked but also intrigued. The thought of her watching me with another woman turned me on, but I was also a little nervous. What would it be like for her?
Would it make things awkward between us? We agreed on a safeword to end play in case my wife was uncomfortable. It’s important to set clear boundaries if you’re going to open your marriage like this.
But I needn’t have worried. My wife seemed genuinely excited about it, and so did the escort, who said she would be happy for my wife to watch.
For the first time in ages, my wife and I were laughing, talking, and connecting again in ways we hadn’t in a long time. It felt like we were rediscovering each other in a whole new way
Antonio Murolo
My wife’s enthusiasm was palpable, and I felt a spark of hope that maybe, just maybe, this was the beginning of a new chapter for us.
Now, the restaurant is doing well, and we’ve hired a part-time manager to ease the stress.
My wife says she’s finally starting to feel like she’s getting her mojo back. It’s been amazing to see her so excited and confident again.
Our sex life is better than ever, and we feel more connected than we have in years.
Who knows what the future holds?
Maybe one day we’ll even take the plunge and attend a swingers’ night, as we’ve talked about for so long.
But for now, we’re taking it one step at a time – and I finally feel like I’ve got my wife back.
My wife says she’s finally starting to feel like she’s getting her mojo back. It’s been amazing to see her so excited and confident again
Antonio Murolo
Ejiro says: “My friends thought I was crazy for booking an escort for Antonio. They thought I was joking at first.
“But it’s been the best thing for our relationship and has actually saved our marriage.
“I know it’s a bit of an out-there thing to do, but at the time I wasn’t physically attracted to Antonio and know men have needs. Now we’ve got our spark back.”