Professional Dating Coach Reveals 3 Things Women 'Secretly' Want
What do women want from the men they're dating? Professional dating coach Blaine Anderson is here to help with that.
Anderson, a former travel industry worker, has built up her own dating coaching business. "Dating By Blaine" launched a couple of years ago. Anderson, who lives in Austin, Texas with her husband, has built up a huge following on social media, where she gives out plenty of helpful tips and advice.
The professional dating coach has also appeared on "Shark Tank." She sells her own dating coaching system, where she personally works with men of all adult ages. However, much of her advice comes on social media, too.
Anderson recently named three things that women "secretly" want from men.
Blaine Anderson.
Anderson revealed the three things that women "secretly" want from the men they are dating.
1. "Daddy energy"
Anderson says that most women want a "strong, masculine" man who can provide for their family. Of course, this can be a different kind of energy for most guys, but most women want a man who will want to help lead a family.
2. Not always being available
You want to be around for the woman you are dating, but early on in the relationship - or dating pursuit - you shouldn't be too available. You should have your own friends, hobbies, obligations and more.
"This shows you're a busy guy whose time is valuable," Anderson said.
"Scarcity will make her want you more."
3. Being protective
This feels similar to the "daddy energy" one, though Anderson says that it's about walking a woman to their car or stepping in when someone makes her uncomfortable.
"She wants to feel protected by you," Anderson said.
Anderson's tips won't work 100 percent of the time, though she's helped hundreds of men find love in a genuine way.