Professional Dating Coach Has Blunt Message for Men Who Get Cheated On
No one likes to get cheated on.
That's a pretty obvious statement. However, studies show that around 20 percent of married men will cheat on their significant others, while around 15 percent of married women will cheat on their significant others. It's an unfortunate reality.
Professional dating coach Blaine Anderson has a blunt message for men who get cheated on.
Anderson, who studied at the University of Arizona, first began working in the travel industry. However, she often found herself giving out dating tips and advice. This started back in college.
"My guy friends would ask me for dating advice about my sorority sisters," she wrote.
"The BEST guys had the WORST luck with girls, and it confused me. I became obsessed with figuring out why. Do women hate nice guys? Or is there another problem?"
Anderson ended up launching Dating By Blaine, a dating coaching business for men. She has built up a huge following on social media and even appeared on ABC's "Shark Tank."
Blaine Anderson.
Anderson, who has close to one million followers on Instagram, recently shared some brutally honest advice for men who get cheated on.
"If another man can take your girl, be happy that he succeeded," she said bluntly.
"If she can be taken, she's not the loyal partner you thought she was. Remember, a woman who really loves you will never put herself in a position to lose you."
Anderson said that while it'll hurt in the moment, it'll be good in the long run.
"As much as it might hurt in the moment, respecting yourself, and letting go of her will improve your life in the long run!" she says.
Anderson is right, of course. While no one likes to get cheated on, once it happens, it's best to just make a clean split and admit that you'll be better off for it moving forward.