3 Things That 'Immediately' Turn Women Off
What really turns women off?
Blaine Anderson, a professional dating coach, has opened up about three things that "immediately" turn women off. Anderson, who studied at the University of Arizona, initially went to work in the travel industry. She later launched her own dating coaching business, Dating By Blaine.
The dating coaching platform made an appearance on ABC's "Shark Tank" and has amassed hundreds of thousands of followers on Instagram. Anderson often takes to social media to share helpful tips and advice.
Recently, Anderson named three things that "immediately" turned women off. It's a helpful list.
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According to Anderson, here are three things that "immediately" turn women off.
1. Not taking the lead
Anderson says that you need to be in control, at least early on. You can do this by setting a firm plan for a date. Don't just ask her "do you want to do something?" or "are you free at all this week?"
Make a specific plan and stick to it.
2. Bragging
It's OK to be successful, but no one likes a bragger. Boasting about money, accomplishments or possessions is going to be an immediate turn off - at least for the kind of person that you are trying to attract.
3. Rushing physical intimacy
Everyone should go at their own pace, but rushing toward physical intimacy is typically going to be a no-no for most in the dating world.
It "will make her feel uncomfortable," Anderson says.
Anderson continued.
"Surprised that bragging turns women off? It’s true — only gold diggers want to hear about your Rolex, or your new condo in Miami. Impress her with your sense of humor, humility, and integrity instead," she said.
"Quality women can infer everything they want to know about your finances by how you carry yourself, and the lifestyle you show them."