We’re swingers, people think it’s all fun and games, but it’s so expensive and there are loads of rules to follow
MANY people see swinging as a free-for-all where you can do whatever you want between the sheets with whoever you want.
But Belle and Jase, who have been swinging for years, reveal swinging isn’t all fun and games.
Taking to social media, the US couple gave a glimpse as to what full-time swinging is really like.
The couple say they have dabbled in swinging house parties, cruises and even hotel takeovers.
And while on these sex excursions, the couple have found it has some downsides.
Taking to their podcast 4ourplay, Jase asked Belle: “What is one downside to swinging?”
And Belle didn’t hold back as she revealed the lifestyle was very pricey.
She said: “I think a lot of people don’t know that it’s super expensive to be in this type of lifestyle.
“So not only going to the clubs, having to pay membership to be a part of it and paying door fees to get in, that’s just to a club. Hotel takeovers are really expensive.”
Jase added: “If you’re going to try a vacation, it’s like way more expensive than a normal vacation because of the type of activities that they allow there and how they have to charter the whole thing out.”
They also said dressing up for the events can quickly add up as well as keeping groomed.
The couple also revealed that there were lots of boundaries and rules put in place for swinging.
The two have their own set of rules and Belle revealed a few they keep to when sleeping with other people.
She said protection was an absolute must, and that the pair never go off on their own, preferring to stay together while they ‘play’.
And when they are playing with others, the two have vowed not to get too ‘intimate’ and refuse to cuddle with the people they have intercourse with.
Jase added: “We don’t do any intimate cuddling like that. That personally feels too intimate for us and we don’t do any pictures, videos during the play sessions.”
What is Swinging?
SWINGING, also known as partner swapping, is a sexual activity where partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with other people.
All parties involved must give explicit and enthusiastic consent.
Open and honest communication between partners is crucial.
Many swingers engage with a community or attend events specifically for swinging.
Such activity can enhance intimacy and trust within the primary relationship.
It provides an opportunity to explore sexual fantasies and desires.
But it is not suitable for every relationship and requires a strong foundation of trust.
Jealousy and emotional challenges may arise and need to be managed.
Clips of the podcast have gone viral on its TikTok account @4ourplaypodcast with over 579k views.
People were quick to share their thoughts on swinging.
One person wrote: “Omg I thought I was the only one who thought this. I’m a unicorn and WHEWWWW swinging alone is expensive as hell.”
Another commented: “It CAN be expensive, but you don’t have to be rich.”
“Yes, it is but it’s totally worth it,” penned a third.
Meanwhile a fourth said: “Sooooo expensive.”
Someone else added: “Seriously… It adds up.”
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