Men pay my beachside rent, buy me Prada handbags & lavish me with cash – just for being mean to them
A WOMAN has revealed that she gets random men to pay her rent and buy her designer products, just by being mean to them.
Bela, 21, has been sent over £80,000 by so-called paypigs, who she has never even met.
A paypig is someone who enjoys being financially dominated, and sends people (usually women) cash in exchange for being berated.
Bela revealed that she discovered paypigs by accident during school when a man DM’d her and told her he was a “homework slave.”
He asked her if he could do her homework, and said that he would pay her for it.
“Who’s gonna say not to that? Not me,” she said in a video posted to her TikTok channel.
Bela revealed that the “homework slave” got 100% on all of her essays and in exchange bought her hauls from Shein and Princess Polly.
Years then passed, and one day, when Bela was “broke as f***, she messaged him and told her she needed money for petrol.
He replied and told her that he wasn’t really into that any more, but showed her how to set up a Twitter account so that paypigs would begin to contact her.
“I had no idea that there were men online that will pay you to be pretty and to bully them,” she said.
“Once I found out that men festishise the idea of sending money to a hot girl for no reason, but life completely changed.”
Bela said that Nico ran her account for the first few months, and made her £18,000.
“I’ve never sold my body, I’ve never talked dirty with these men, I’ve never done anything inappropriate,” she said.
She added that is men try to cross the line with her, she blocks them and charges them £200 to get unblocked.
Bela’s (@brokeforbelablair_) video has likely left many people impressed, as it has racked up over 583,000 views on the video sharing platform.
TikTok users raced to the video’s comments section to share their thoughts on Bela’s unique money making scheme.
What your sexual fantasies say about you
By Emma Kenny, a TV presenter and psychologist
Raucous Role Play: If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility.
Multi-Partner Fantasies: Craving variety doesn’t always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment.
Power & Control: A little dominance is normal, but if it’s always about control, it may hide insecurities.
Adventure: Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected.
Passion: If he’s romantic, he’s emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations.
Flexibility: Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection.
Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.
One person said: “Where do I find them?”
A second person said: “God, let this paypig business locate me.”
A third person said: “No way that’s insane ( where do I find one).”
A fourth person added: “That’s literally my dream.”